RE: Joke17 Jul 2024 20:36
Money doesn’t buy happiness. Hence, why you have some lottery winners that are very unhappy. Happiness is what personally brings you joy. I agree with Ice on that point.
Money does enable you however to make choices to increase your commercial worth, Buy that villa aboard you want, explore the world, experience things that you can’t do unless you have money. Make better choices for your family. Eat at some of the finest restaurants in the world, share a bottle of wine with a loved one at an overseas romantic destination etc, etc - all material but build experiences that bring joy imo. But it’s still a state of mind. Let’s face it you can go somewhere with a low expectation and end up having an amazing time yet go somewhere you expect to be great and it disappoints. State of mind.
I recall chatting with a senior lady who came to an event a while back. A loverly woman but In my perception, this lady had achieved next to zero in her life, a few part time jobs, zero contribution to any kind of success, breadline, skint on and living on basic pension. Certainly had never experienced some of the material things I had. However, she was absolutely full of it, so cheerful loving life. She told me, if she died tomorrow she would be totally satisfied and happy with her life, she had two children and five grand kids and one great grand child. She said when she was 16 she was asked what she wanted out of life and said two children, one of each. Well she had achieved that and more and could die very happy. I pondered on this and thought, interesting, despite all my own achievements i can’t say the same as I still strive for more.
Maybe this is why you have people at one end of the scale like Elon musk with billions and it’s still not enough, they quest for more as they are unfulfilled hence probably not as happy as the women above who had low expectations but exceeded them all.