NPD/ HPD (2)27 Feb 2023 13:03
You may perceive yourself as an equal member of a greater number, but these individuals see this board as a stage and you as the audience.
Their opinion will be heard and you will listen. Any opposing views must be challenged (antagonistic), there is no debate, as this is a contest that must have a winner and a loser.
You must lose, you absolutely will not have the last word.
Once embedded, these individuals always paint a picture of success in all areas of life, knowing full well there is no means of confirmation: Loving family and friends, busy social life, successful executive career or business owner, world travel etc. The reality is the exact opposite, hence the sheer number of posts at varying times.
You will note that only the ‘intelligencia’ of the forum are targeted, as a means to maintaining a perceived high level of status, with the ‘riff raff’ left completely ignored.
It is important to realise that none of these individuals chose to be born with these behavioural traits, so should be treated with a degree of respect, but at the same time they have no place on a forum where genuine investors are trying to make financial decisions.
Whether an illness is in the mind, lungs, heart etc should be irrelevant, none of us have any control over the location, but illness of the mind has always wrongly carried a certain stigma, mainly due to lack of understanding and education.
Terms such as ‘nut job’, ‘fruit loop’, ‘screw loose’ (as seen on other boards) simply show a lack of understanding and simply add fuel to the fire. As we move into 2023 we should be better than this, hopefully these notes may go some way to making a start in the right direction.
Recommended Response:
If you don’t use the ‘filter’ option, you should NEVER enter into conversation or comment on their posts, even when deliberately provoked, belittled or goaded. The primary response these individuals cannot handle is being ignored or sidelined.
If you must reply, simply copy and paste the first (or both) links provided below without personal comment.
It takes less than five minutes to read these two links, allowing you to easily identify these individuals in future.
Reposting these links without comment by enough posters will eventually force these individuals elsewhere and your board will eventually return to normal, sooner rather than later.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder