RE: Note to Seen_It17 Dec 2020 16:52
Good afternoon s-i-d-i,
This layout of messages is doing my head in LOL. Normally most recent at the top, but t'other way round here for some reason.
My life may be different to yours, but I am sure with your experience of life, you choose to do "what works for you" and as long as you are happy with the way things are then that can only be good. None of our four boys are sportingly active these days and all are very different. Each to their own, as it would be dull world if all the same.
For me, "a happy wife is a happy life" and I do not mean any harm by that with your unfortunate situation. Mrs CSDI's first marriage ended up badly and very toxic as she ran out of the marital home leaving two young children behind as her ex was a nasty, controlling piece of work that turned very violent on xmas eve 1997. In fact his 25 y/o chooses not to see him at all and the 29 y/o has had his umpteenth fall out. I am pretty laid back, and lazy in my own way as a minimalist. Mrs CSDI is the brains and the "do-er" in our house, while I get along with work (doing as little as possible 75% of the time), few house chores, taking Mrs CSDI out whenver she wants (which is not much atm) and getting involved in my chess and watching sports and shares (like you). Shopping is not a high priority for Mrs CSDI, as she values her spare time greatly having worked all her life and is the main bread-winner these days. She is going to start drawing her NHS pension next year, while contining to work on a reduced basis. I have worked for myself for over 25 yrs but only have a very small pension, which is invested in my SIPP, as my income has been used over the years to pay our hefty mortgage which still has 6-7 yrs to go. Neither of us are motivated by money, so we choose a quieter life without chasing the modern consumerism. With a 19 y/o unemployed and a 25 y/o back in college (and working pt time) we still have parental responsibilities that I started over 33 yrs ago. That's our choice so we do the best we can, and to support the 83 y/o F-i-L. My parents passed away long ago, and I have two sisters who are both happily married and older than me. I have not seen either of them since February, due to the CV-19, with one having health issues as an ex cancer sufferer, and the other retired. One lives about 50 miles away, and the other about 100 miles. We normally meet up 2-3 times a year for meals, and have plenty of chat time on the phone.
No doubt you will be totting up your + and - with the shares now, so hope you've had a good day. It looks like FTSE100 had bit of dwon day, while 250 has a had a much better day. As we both have most in FTSE100, about 75% for me, not an exciting day unless your traders have done well.
Keep drinking the tea -as it works wonders - warming, soothing, calming etc.
Take care - catch up later - cheers - CSDI