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Interesting article:-
Arguing with someone who has narcissistic traits can leave you confused , hurt and its fruitless .
People on the narcissism spectrum — from those with narcissistic traits to those with diagnosed narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) — may have an intense desire to win arguments, as it helps keep their ego intact.
At times, it may seem as though they’ll accomplish this by any means necessary. As a result, there are many things people with narcissistic traits say in an argument to gain the upper hand.
Talking to someone with narcissism can be a challenge. This article looks at some narcissistic argument techniques, why people use them, and ways to protect yourself.
Research shows that those who live with narcissism often carry an innate sense of victimhood, which is why they might shift the blame over to you, someone else, or another external factor they have little control over.
Shifting blame and defensiveness can sound like:
• “It’s not my fault, it’s because of you/money/stress/work.”
• “If you wouldn’t have done this, I wouldn’t have done that.”
• “You knew what you were getting into; this is just the way that I am.”
If you can’t spot what’s happening when someone plays the victim card, you may find yourself feeling bad and apologizing for a perceived slight.
Deflecting away from the argument
When faced with indisputable proof (like receipts, photos, e-mails), someone with narcissistic traits may redirect attention back onto you as a distraction.
Deflection can include:
• Indirect or non-answers: bringing unrelated details into the mix.
• Prior arguments: bringing up old issues, particularly your prior “offenses.”
• Guilt-tripping: “After everything I’ve done for you, this is how you repay me?”
• Projection: accusing you of exactly what they are doing.
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