RE: Missing out?5 Mar 2024 18:02
"pete, need to channel those sorts of thoughts elsewhere somehow, fearing the worst can only mean you miss out on whats for the better.
As an example, my weakest point is my emotions, impossible to hurt me physically but emotionally with just words its very easy, im a soppy git. So i decided in the fight for my life my emotions were my achilles heel and not taking part in the battle. I told all that know me my 'emotions are in a box under the stairs' and i dealt with things in a kind of cold hoop jumping process type way, if my emotions had been involved i would have lost and i knew that.
Stupid thing is i live in a bungalow and dont have any bloody stairs, but it worked for me :)"