RE: Chelsea11 Nov 2018 03:59
Bermuda//Konar, ..............I had four choices last night, all four didn"t sit well with me, saying nothing was the most obvious, but for me that is very hard. These past four months have been the hardest I have had over recent years, too often i am confined to bed, up all night, and unfortunately my reputation goes before me, when the matter of BB rows has left me pleading for peace. Tonight is no exception and relevant because to be very frank, some might have noticed, i avoid the rows like the plague, not having even an ounce of strength or desire to do anything but walk away when they occur. I seem to have chosen badly again by your replies. There is not even a thought that either of you were at fault on Friday, I don"t think i can think of one incident involving Bermuda in six years, that has made me feel anything other than having the deepest respect for him, both as a poster and a role model for all of us, by his decency, respect and knowledge of subject matters. For ease of Bermudas reply , it has saddened me that for a few months you have chosen to post less here, in what i presume is because of this situation. In no way do i feel any blame can be apportioned to you or Konar, and Konar your post back to me warrents an answer, nor do i feel you have anything to apologise to either.
A BB can only work (I haven"t stumbled across many though) where decency allows debate and can be productive. unfortunately we have been blighted by that for far too long. It did not matter a jot what the debate was about, the tension sprung to life whatever was posted and was always going to end the way it did. Inanaco, very aware of the attacks against you that are increasing i have reiterated recently my appreciation of your input many times. But it is inexcusable to judge what is relevant or not to anybody else, and more importantly speak in a manner which you did again on Friday, which neither Konar nor Bermuda were prepared to be on the receiving end of. I cannot debate you on the science, if only you could have the humanity not to have to be right about everything. Congratulations if you are, but even my mother said, I am never wrong, but not always right!!!
Ruck thanks for replying, Ivy didn"t, but i still feel neither of you should have got involved, it was always going to degenarate even mor badly by doing so. Fact., it didn"t involve you, shouldn"t have and forgive me for thinking the opportunity to have a go at Inanaco was too great, to miss.
Whatever i say will probably upset someone, that so isn"t my intention, just trying to say it how I see it, in the faint hope all parties, sorry again Inanaco, but particularly you learn to walk away from petty conflicts rather than drive into them at 100m.p.h.
Again, i refer to Moljens post, whose post was very accurate IMHO, and again and maybe especially you Bermuda,your reply to me,made me feel i wanted to add these comments.I know how you feel, and you shouldn"t have too. ATB